Hope: Part 2, Hoping Against Hope

The title of this post comes from a verse in Paul’s letter to the Romans where he describes the faith of Abraham as “hoping against hope”, (Rom. 4:18).

It is a curious phrase. What does it mean to hope against hope?

The simplest way to understand it is that hoping against hope is “hoping for something that is most likely an impossibility.” Or we could think about it in terms of two kinds of hope. That is, what Paul has in mind is one kind of hope hoping against another kind of hope.

“Natural” Hope

The first type of hope we can describe as a “natural” hope. The kind of hope we have when January rolls around or when we enter a new stage in life. In sports, it is the hope that springs eternal at the start of every new season. We have an expectation that what lies ahead promises something better than what we have today. Hope is born when we marry this expectation with the belief that we have what it takes to bring about that better future.

This kind of hope is largely about reaching a desired outcome and having the grit to overcome any obstacles that come our way. It is tied up with our capacity to attain what we set out to accomplish and our fortitude to persevere through adversity. When the chips are down, hope names our persistence to believe we can still achieve our goals.

Really, this is akin to how we usually think about optimism.

And so optimism, we might say, is the kind of hope we are called to hope against.

“Unnatural” Hope

This second kind of hope is not like optimism in that it is not “natural.” The desired outcome we hope for does not naturally emerge from the character of the present. We do not hope for something that can be reasonably extrapolated from current conditions. Rather our hope is in a future good that only God can give to us. In this way, Christian hope is “unnatural.” Or rather, it is super natural. Super, simply meaning, “above or beyond.” The hope that hopes against hope is a hope that goes beyond or above optimism. 

This kind of hope hopes not only when the chips are down, but even when optimism has lost all reason to hope. It is here where hope is just getting started. Hope begins where optimism ends.

In this way, hope is made possible by faith. As the Apostle Paul would have it, hope is born in the presence of the God in whom we believe, “who gives life to the dead and calls into existence the things that do not exist,” (Rom. 4:17). So to hope against hope is to not allow our hope to be dictated by positive circumstances or limited by the promise of human progress. To hope against hope is to keep the hope even when we no longer have sufficient reasons to do so. We hope against what the present data tells us.

Hope is a Hard Ask

And this, of course, is what makes hope so hard. We live in a time where our vision of what is possible is entirely shaped by the hope that science, technology, and reason possess within themselves the capacity to make all things new (but mostly we just end up with all new things). And so, our default setting as a culture is to look askew at any hope that hopes above or beyond what can be achieved through human ingenuity and empirical know-how. We dismiss it as naive or Pollyannaish.

Even as a person of faith, it is difficult to shake the all too glaring question, “What’s the point of hoping for something you can’t accomplish or achieve by your own effort?” At best, it encourages an ineffectual passivity as we bide our time for the great by and by. At worst, it is delusional and traps us in an endless cycle of denial.

These are questions we’ll want to explore in the coming posts.

Hope: Part 1, And the Greatest of These is Hope

In the Christian tradition faith, hope and love are known as the three theological virtues.

To say that hope is the greatest of these may feel a bit off. If you are familiar with the Apostle Paul’s great ode to love in 1 Corinthians 13 you may know that it ends with these words: “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.”

Love is the greatest, not hope.

But the point St. Paul was making is that love can be considered the greatest because it will be the last one standing. There will come a time when faith and hope will no longer be needed. Not so with love. There will always be love. Why is that? First and foremost, because God is love. And when that day comes when God is all in all (1 Cor. 15:28) and we are welcomed home into the eternal embrace of God — the everlasting love shared between Father, Son and Holy Spirit — that is all there will be. Love.

But until that day arrives what sustains our love is faith and hope. Both traffic in the unseen and the not yet. As we wait for what we cannot yet see and yearn for what we do not yet have, faith allows us to trust in what is promised and in so doing, opens the door to hope. Hope, in turn, animates our lives toward the fulfillment of that promise.

Without faith, there is nothing to hope for. Conversely, without hope, faith is listless. Or, maybe we can put it this way: faith without hope is dead. So when hope runs dry, our faith begins to languish. But not only does our faith suffer, but also our resolve to act in love. 

A helpful way to see the relationship between these theological virtues is through the analogy of a journey. Among the many routes before us faith is what allows us to see and choose the path marked out for us in Christ; the one Jesus walked before us and continues to walk ahead of us. Love is both what infuses each step we take and the end toward which we walk. Hope is that which keeps us moving. It compels us forward as we anticpate the loving end for which we are destined.

And this, I think, is the greatness of hope. To love in the way Christ calls us to love — namely, to love even our enemies — is an act of hope. It is hope for our enemy and hope in God to vindicate us should our enemy choose to repay our love with hatred and malice. We need hope because hope enlivens us to stay the course (to keep the faith) even when (especially when) the way of love gets hard. 

All this to say, we don’t want to downplay love. Love is indeed the greatest in that it will last through eternity. But there are times in this journey we call the Christian life, where one of faith, hope and love will take on a greater role. Could it be that in our time, when the fulfillment of God’s promises seems so far off and we find it a struggle to keep on keeping on, that the greatest for us is hope?

Shabbat Dinner Liturgy | Week 5

This year Christ Kaleidoscope is learning about and leaning into the practice of Sabbath. During the Lenten season we are entering this practice by participating in a weekly Shabbat Dinner.

Shabbat dinner marks the event that transitions us between the everyday ordinary and the holy and sacred day of Sabbath. It is a meal, usually with others, that welcomes in this holy day of rest.

To follow along with this practice as designed, you’ll need a candle and a lighter/matches as well as a meal and ideally others to share it with. Either choose a host to read through this liturgy and prayers for you, or split the job up among those attending.

Finally after the meal has begun, we’ve provided some discussion questions for conversation around specific parts of Sabbath, to help you consider and plan what it means to practice the Sabbath yourself.

Shabbat Dinner Liturgy

Welcome:

Host read aloud:

Today we come together to practice the act of setting aside time as sacred.  To pause and remember the goodness and provision of our Lord, and do so alongside our brothers and sisters in Christ in fellowship and community.  We eat this meal together tonight as a rehearsal of what is to come and all that we have to look forward to when the Kingdom of God is fully present.

Prayer for the time together

Light a candle and pray together:

Blessed are You, Eternal our God, Sovereign of time and space.

You hallow us with Your teachings and guidance and command us to kindle the lights of Shabbat.

Prayer of Blessing over the meal:

(adapted from the Jewish prayer of Birkat HaMazon)

Host read aloud:

Sovereign God of the universe, we praise You: Your goodness sustains the world. You are the God of grace, love, and compassion, the Source of bread for all who live; for Your love is everlasting. In Your great goodness we need never lack for food; You provide food enough for all. We praise You, O God, Source of food for all who live.

As it is written: When you have eaten and are satisfied, give praise to your God who has given you this good earth. We praise You, O God, for the earth and for its sustenance.

Merciful One, be our God forever.
Merciful One, heaven and earth alike are blessed by Your presence.
Merciful One, bless this house,
this table at which we will eat.
Merciful One, send us glimpses of good to come, redemption and consolation.
Merciful One, help us to see the coming of a time when all is Shabbat.

May the Source of peace grant peace to us, to all Israel, and to all the world. May the Eternal grant strength to our people. May the Eternal bless our people with peace. Amen.

Discussion Topic:

We are taking this time of Lent to learn more about Sabbath and how we can practice it.  Discuss as a group the idea of actually making a plan to spend time with God.  Here are some prompts to help with the conversation:

  • If you could set up the ideal space and time to spend with God, what would it look like? Where would it be? When would it happen? What would you do? What distractions wouldn’t be present?
  • Now take some time to talk about what would be practically possible for you to do this week.  Pick one hour this next week when you will intentionally set aside time to spend with God and choose one thing you want to do during the hour and one thing you will refrain from (for instance, I will take a walk outside to talk to God at some point during the hour and I will not use or look at my phone for the whole hour).

Shabbat Dinner Liturgy | Week 4

This year Christ Kaleidoscope is learning about and leaning into the practice of Sabbath. During the Lenten season we are entering this practice by participating in a weekly Shabbat Dinner.

Shabbat dinner marks the event that transitions us between the everyday ordinary and the holy and sacred day of Sabbath. It is a meal, usually with others, that welcomes in this holy day of rest.

To follow along with this practice as designed, you’ll need a candle and a lighter/matches as well as a meal and ideally others to share it with. Either choose a host to read through this liturgy and prayers for you, or split the job up among those attending.

Finally after the meal has begun, we’ve provided some discussion questions for conversation around specific parts of Sabbath, to help you consider and plan what it means to practice the Sabbath yourself.

Shabbat Dinner Liturgy

Welcome:

Host read aloud:

Today we come together to practice the act of setting aside time as sacred.  To pause and remember the goodness and provision of our Lord, and do so alongside our brothers and sisters in Christ in fellowship and community.  We eat this meal together tonight as a rehearsal of what is to come and all that we have to look forward to when the Kingdom of God is fully present.

Prayer for the time together

Light a candle and pray together:

Blessed are You, Eternal our God, Sovereign of time and space.

You hallow us with Your teachings and guidance and command us to kindle the lights of Shabbat.

Prayer of Blessing over the meal:

(adapted from the Jewish prayer of Birkat HaMazon)

Host read aloud:

Sovereign God of the universe, we praise You: Your goodness sustains the world. You are the God of grace, love, and compassion, the Source of bread for all who live; for Your love is everlasting. In Your great goodness we need never lack for food; You provide food enough for all. We praise You, O God, Source of food for all who live.

As it is written: When you have eaten and are satisfied, give praise to your God who has given you this good earth. We praise You, O God, for the earth and for its sustenance.

Merciful One, be our God forever.
Merciful One, heaven and earth alike are blessed by Your presence.
Merciful One, bless this house, this table at which we will eat.
Merciful One, send us glimpses of good to come, redemption and consolation.
Merciful One, help us to see the coming of a time when all is Shabbat.

May the Source of peace grant peace to us, to all Israel, and to all the world. May the Eternal grant strength to our people. May the Eternal bless our people with peace. Amen.

Discussion Topic:

We are taking this time of Lent to learn more about Sabbath and how we can practice it.  Discuss as a group the idea of the things that distract us in life.  Here are some prompts to help with the conversation:

  • What’s the first thing you reach for when you’re bored or have a minute to spare?
  • What do you tend to pick up or do when you’re procrastinating on something, whether that’s a project, a chore, or even just going to bed?
  • When you’re trying to be intentional with what you’re doing with your time, what kinds of things tend to pop up and throw you off track? (people, activities, thoughts, etc)
  • When you have the intention to set aside some time to spend with God, what makes it hard to actually take that time, either because they take up your schedule or draw your attention away when you actually do sit down with God?

Shabbat Dinner Liturgy | Week 3

This year Christ Kaleidoscope is learning about and leaning into the practice of Sabbath. During the Lenten season we are entering this practice by participating in a weekly Shabbat Dinner.

Shabbat dinner marks the event that transitions us between the everyday ordinary and the holy and sacred day of Sabbath. It is a meal, usually with others, that welcomes in this holy day of rest.

To follow along with this practice as designed, you’ll need a candle and a lighter/matches as well as a meal and ideally others to share it with. Either choose a host to read through this liturgy and prayers for you, or split the job up among those attending.

Finally after the meal has begun, we’ve provided some discussion questions for conversation around specific parts of Sabbath, to help you consider and plan what it means to practice the Sabbath yourself.

Shabbat Dinner Liturgy

Welcome:

Today we come together to practice the act of setting aside time as sacred.  To pause and remember the goodness and provision of our Lord, and do so alongside our brothers and sisters in Christ in fellowship and community.  We eat this meal together tonight as a rehearsal of what is to come and all that we have to look forward to when the Kingdom of God is fully present.

Light a candle and pray together:

Blessed are You, Eternal our God, Sovereign of time and space.

You hallow us with Your teachings and guidance and command us to kindle the lights of Shabbat.

Prayer of Blessing over the meal:

(adapted from the Jewish prayer of Birkat HaMazon)

Sovereign God of the universe, we praise You: Your goodness sustains the world. You are the God of grace, love, and compassion, the Source of bread for all who live; for Your love is everlasting. In Your great goodness we need never lack for food; You provide food enough for all. We praise You, O God, Source of food for all who live.

As it is written: When you have eaten and are satisfied, give praise to your God who has given you this good earth. We praise You, O God, for the earth and for its sustenance.

Merciful One, be our God forever.
Merciful One, heaven and earth alike are blessed by Your presence.
Merciful One, bless this house, this table at which we will eat.
Merciful One, send us glimpses of good to come, redemption and consolation.
Merciful One, help us to see the coming of a time when all is Shabbat.

May the Source of peace grant peace to us, to all Israel, and to all the world. May the Eternal grant strength to our people. May the Eternal bless our people with peace. Amen.

Discussion Topic: Closer to God

We are taking this time of Lent to learn more about Sabbath and how we can practice it.  Discuss as a group the idea of drawing closer to God.  Here are some prompts to help with the conversation:

  • In what physical places do you feel closest to God?
  • When you feel distant from God, is there anything you have done that helped you feel closer again? What was it?
  • How do you connect with God on a regular basis?  What’s the most natural way you feel his presence?
  • Can you identify any barriers in your life between you and God? Doubts, questions, anger, indifference, overwhelm, etc. that put space between you?

Shabbat Dinner Liturgy | Week 2

This year Christ Kaleidoscope is learning about and leaning into the practice of Sabbath. During the Lenten season we are entering this practice by participating in a weekly Shabbat Dinner.

Shabbat dinner marks the event that transitions us between the everyday ordinary and the holy and sacred day of Sabbath. It is a meal, usually with others, that welcomes in this holy day of rest.

To follow along with this practice as designed, you’ll need a candle and a lighter/matches as well as a meal and ideally others to share it with. Either choose a host to read through this liturgy and prayers for you, or split the job up among those attending.

Finally after the meal has begun, we’ve provided some discussion questions for conversation around specific parts of Sabbath, to help you consider and plan what it means to practice the Sabbath yourself.

Shabbat Dinner Liturgy

Welcome:

Host read aloud:

Today we come together to practice the act of setting aside time as sacred.  To pause and remember the goodness and provision of our Lord, and do so alongside our brothers and sisters in Christ in fellowship and community.  We eat this meal together tonight as a rehearsal of what is to come and all that we have to look forward to when the Kingdom of God is fully present.

Prayer for the time together

Light a candle and pray together:

Blessed are You, Eternal our God, Sovereign of time and space.

You hallow us with Your teachings and guidance and command us to kindle the lights of Shabbat.

Prayer of Blessing over the meal:

(adapted from the Jewish prayer of Birkat HaMazon)

Host read aloud:

Sovereign God of the universe, we praise You: Your goodness sustains the world. You are the God of grace, love, and compassion, the Source of bread for all who live; for Your love is everlasting. In Your great goodness we need never lack for food; You provide food enough for all. We praise You, O God, Source of food for all who live.

As it is written: When you have eaten and are satisfied, give praise to your God who has given you this good earth. We praise You, O God, for the earth and for its sustenance.

Merciful One, be our God forever.

Merciful One, heaven and earth alike are blessed by Your presence.

Merciful One, bless this house,

this table at which we will eat.

Merciful One, send us glimpses of good to come, redemption and consolation.

Merciful One, help us to see the coming of a time when all is Shabbat.

May the Source of peace grant peace to us, to all Israel, and to all the world. May the Eternal grant strength to our people. May the Eternal bless our people with peace. Amen.

Discussion Topic:

We are taking this time of Lent to learn more about Sabbath and how we can practice it.  Discuss as a group the idea of work.  Here are some prompts to help with the conversation:

  • What are the kinds of tasks that make up your occupation? Reading emails? Gathering or analyzing data? Making reports? 
  • What are the kinds of tasks that make up your chores at home? The things that keep your place in order and stocked up?
  • What are the things you enjoy about your work (occupationally and domestically)?
  • Why might it be good to take a break from even the things we enjoy?
  • What would you have to plan for and do to make it so that you don’t need to work for a set amount of time each week?

Shabbat Dinner Liturgy | Week 1

This year Christ Kaleidoscope is learning about and leaning into the practice of Sabbath. During the Lenten season we are entering this practice by participating in a weekly Shabbat Dinner.

Shabbat dinner marks the event that transitions us between the everyday ordinary and the holy and sacred day of Sabbath. It is a meal, usually with others, that welcomes in this holy day of rest.

To follow along with this practice as designed, you’ll need a candle and a lighter/matches as well as a meal and ideally others to share it with. Either choose a host to read through this liturgy and prayers for you, or split the job up among those attending.

Finally after the meal has begun, we’ve provided some discussion questions for conversation around specific parts of Sabbath, to help you consider and plan what it means to practice the Sabbath yourself.

Shabbat Dinner Liturgy

Welcome

Host read aloud:

Today we come together to practice the act of setting aside time as sacred.  To pause and remember the goodness and provision of our Lord, and do so alongside our brothers and sisters in Christ in fellowship and community.  We eat this meal together tonight as a rehearsal of what is to come and all that we have to look forward to when the Kingdom of God is fully present.

Prayer for the time together

Light a candle and pray together:

Blessed are You, Eternal our God, Sovereign of time and space.

You hallow us with Your teachings and guidance and command us to kindle the lights of Shabbat.

Prayer of Blessing over the meal

(adapted from the Jewish prayer of Birkat HaMazon)

Host read aloud:

Sovereign God of the universe, we praise You: Your goodness sustains the world. You are the God of grace, love, and compassion, the Source of bread for all who live; for Your love is everlasting. In Your great goodness we need never lack for food; You provide food enough for all. We praise You, O God, Source of food for all who live.

As it is written: When you have eaten and are satisfied, give praise to your God who has given you this good earth. We praise You, O God, for the earth and for its sustenance.

Merciful One, be our God forever.

Merciful One, heaven and earth alike are blessed by Your presence.

Merciful One, bless this house,

this table at which we will eat.

Merciful One, send us glimpses of good to come, redemption and consolation.

Merciful One, help us to see the coming of a time when all is Shabbat.

May the Source of peace grant peace to us, to all Israel, and to all the world. Amen. May the Eternal grant strength to our people. May the Eternal bless our people with peace.

Discussion Topic: Rest

We are taking this time of Lent to learn more about Sabbath and how we can practice it. One very important part of the Sabbath is learning how to rest.  Discuss as a group the idea of rest.  Here are some prompts to help with the conversation:

  • Is resting hard or easy for you?  Why do you think that is? 
  • What seems restful on paper, but leaves you empty or drained instead? 
  • What helps your body rest? Your mind? Your spirit?
  • What things tend to keep you from good rest?
  • What things help you foster good rest?

The Mind and the Good Life

Romans 8:1-8

Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. 2 For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death. 3 For God has done what the law, weakened by the flesh, could not do: by sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh and to deal with sin, he condemned sin in the flesh, 4 so that the just requirement of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not according to the flesh but according to the Spirit. 5 For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. 6 To set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace. 7 For this reason the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God; it does not submit to God’s law—indeed, it cannot, 8 and those who are in the flesh cannot please God.

Romans 12:1-2

1 Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.”  It’s a saying I learned in kindergarten that tried to teach me to not pay attention to the mean things other kids might say.

It is true that a spoken word will never break skin like a stick or stone can, but the reason the saying was created is because words actually can hurt. They can inflict invisible wounds that last longer than any cut or broken bone.  Words can have power, they can be a weapon.  And like any weapon, they can be used for evil, but they also can be used for good.

Our thoughts, what goes on in our minds, are words as well.  Unspoken, internal words, but powerful words nonetheless, and once again have deep potential for the greatest good and the darkest evil.

Thoughts don’t usually start out big or loud.  They’re echoes, small whispers, little ideas usually at first.  But the more we listen to them, and listen for them, the louder they become, the more true they sound, the more we believe them.

This works with negative thoughts, “I’m stupid,” “I’m ugly,” “I’m unlovable,” as well as with positive ones, “I am loved,” “I have gifts,” “I was made for a purpose.”

We may not believe the thoughts at first, but the more we pay attention to them, the more we repeat them, it’s like throwing one more log on that fire, and the more we feed the fire, the hotter and more consuming it will become.

I think this is much the same as what Paul talks so much about in his letters of the war between flesh and Spirit.  When we do things throughout our day, we’re metaphorically placing a log on a different fire, in this case we can call one fire “the flesh” and the other “the Spirit”.

But we’re not the only ones placing logs on our fires…the people around us, the things we listen to, can throw logs on either fire as well if we let them.  This is why we have to be thoughtful of our minds.  We have to think about what we’re thinking about.  We have to pay attention to what we’re surrounding ourselves with.

Are we being conformed to the pattern of this world?  Mindlessly absorbing what everyone around us says is good?  More money, a nicer neighborhood, escaping the world and starting a homestead?  None of these things in and of themselves are bad, but we have to ask why we want them.  Is that really where the Spirit is leading us or is that what our flesh wants?  Maybe it’s a little of both…

But how do we know God’s will?  His good, pleasing and perfect will?  Paul says, we need to be transformed by the renewing of our minds.  Not the complete overhaul of our minds…we don’t need to start back at square one necessarily, but we need to be able to sift through our thoughts and ask what is really true? What is really good?  What is really from God?

How is it possible to do this?  

We ask.  We ask God to help us change, we ask God to transform our minds, we ask God to give us the strength to stop conforming to this world.  

We seek.  We seek the Spirit in everything we do, in every decision we make.  We seek wisdom in the scriptures, we seek wisdom through our elders.

We surrender.  We accept that we are made of flesh and will always struggle at some level with our fleshly desires and with the constant current of the pattern of this world, so we surrender to the Spirit and his guidance that we sought, even when it seems painful.

We set our mind on the Spirit, we try to notice every wandering thought, we ask God to help us identify what is of the world (or flesh) and what is of the Spirit, and we cast aside logs that want to build the fleshly fire and accept the ones that build the Spirit’s fire.  Paul says that is when we find life and peace.

Community and the Good Life

1 Corinthians 12:12-26

12 For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. 13 For in the one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and we were all made to drink of one Spirit.

14 Indeed, the body does not consist of one member but of many. 15 If the foot would say, “Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. 16 And if the ear would say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. 17 If the whole body were an eye, where would the hearing be? If the whole body were hearing, where would the sense of smell be? 18 But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. 19 If all were a single member, where would the body be? 20 As it is, there are many members yet one body. 21 The eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you,” nor again the head to the feet, “I have no need of you.” 22 On the contrary, the members of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, 23 and those members of the body that we think less honorable we clothe with greater honor, and our less respectable members are treated with greater respect, 24 whereas our more respectable members do not need this. But God has so arranged the body, giving the greater honor to the inferior member, 25 that there may be no dissension within the body, but the members may have the same care for one another. 26 If one member suffers, all suffer together with it; if one member is honored, all rejoice together with it.

I’ve always found this passage from Paul to be quite genius in explaining community and diversity.  As an introvert who tends to run on the assumption that things are just better when I can be alone, this passage always helped me understand the necessity of community. 

It would make me picture myself as a hand or an eyeball or a brain or some particular part of my body and how I would be stranded and fairly useless without an arm, a head, a torso, and feet and all the other parts dependent on one another that help me function.  I am very glad to have all of the parts of my body, and that is usually as far as this metaphor would go for me in previous readings of this passage: my whole body is a good thing and so is having a community to be surrounded by.

But this time reading it I was struck more by the necessity of a diverse community than just a community itself.  Maybe it’s the season of life I am in where I work from home and an no longer surrounded by the hustle and bustle of people constantly that my introverted self can finally run on a mostly full battery and actually seek out and enjoy the company of others because I can show up with a full tank rather than run on fumes like what I worked a desk job.

And in this season, when I find I am up for community unlike I have ever been before, I am not struck with the idea that it is good to be with others, I’m already feeling that on my own!  I am more struck with reflecting on the members that make up the community I surround myself with.  

When I think about it honestly, I tend to seek out those more like me.  A hand wanting to hold other hands rather than hang around the recovering stubbed toe.

Paul’s words this time have reminded me that my life is not truly good, the way God says it can be good, outside of community, but even more so it is not truly good outside of a diverse community.

Now I don’t think this means I need to kick all my friends and like-minded or like-gifted people to the curb and find different ones, but it does remind me, especially in an election year like this one, that life is not really good when I think about certain things as “us vs. them”.  Life is not really good when I think of it as “me vs. the world”.  Life is not really good when I’m always in my comfort zone (note…I think it’s ok to be comfortable, but when our decisions are all made based on how comfortable something will make me, I think that’s the problem)

It may be frustrating or even scary sometimes to butt heads with others in community, and some personalities and viewpoints can chafe sometimes.   It usually feels safer to be with like-minded or like-tempered people.  It makes life smoother.

It reminds me of the saying, “great minds think alike,” and often use it to celebrate being in agreement about things. But did you know  that’s not the whole saying?  We’ve lost the last little bit, probably out of convenience: “Great minds think alike, though fools seldom differ.” 

When we surround ourselves with like-minded people all the time we get stuck in an echo chamber.  We can also get just plain old stuck.  Without diversity of perspectives and giftings we tend to just keep doing the same old thing, which may be fine…but what about when the same old thing just isn’t working any more?  What about when habits have gotten you in a rut?  What about when the path you’re on is bypassing or possibly even intentionally avoiding certain areas of life that need to be addressed?

Community and diverse community (and this is not just culturally diverse…we’re talking age, socioeconomic status, married/single, religious affiliation, family background, and so much more) helps us see what we can’t see on our own.  Grow to places we couldn’t get to on our own.  Understand things we were ignorant of.  Challenge us in ways where we have to really think about what we believe and how we want to live.

True, healthy community pushes us, it can be hard, it can be uncomfortable, but it is very good.

Suffering and the Good Life

When we think about suffering in relation to the good life it helps to make some distinctions about the different kinds of suffering we experience as well as the different connotations that attend the word ‘good.’

A major component of what we commonly think of as a good life would be the happy life. The happy life, as we are using it there, is a life of comfort and ease spared of any and all kinds of suffering. In a way, it is a natural longing we all ought to have. We all perceive a kind of innate enmity between our happiness and those things that cause us to suffer. For someone to express that they desire a life full of suffering would be cause for concern. We all want to be happy and part of our quest for happiness involves preventing or minimizing our exposure to suffering.

The tragic irony, however, is that in our pursuit of securing the happy life for ourselves, we often end up increasing the possibility of suffering for others. As Americans, we all know those famous words embedded in our nation’s constitution:

Constitution of the United States

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed, by their Creator, with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

The problem arises when our unalienable right to pursue our happiness is challenged by someone else’s, or some other nation’s unalienable right to pursue theirs. On the global level, most often what happens is war. Nations war against one another for many reasons, but a constant and enduring one is to protect or acquire those resources that will best ensure happiness in the long run. Human history is, in many ways, simply the long, bloody march of one war after another in the pursuit of happiness.

Of course, this plays out often enough in our personal lives as well. The pursuit of our own individual happiness often comes at the expense of someone’s else happiness, whether we are cognizant of that reality or not. The things that bring us happiness — the food we eat, the clothes we buy, the phones we stare at, the list goes on and on — all come to us on the backs of others who must bear the burden of making those goods and services accessible, convenient and affordable for us.

In the Christian tradition we are taught not to think of happiness as a right, but rather, as a gift. It is not something we pursue, but something that comes to us, that we receive. What is more, what we find in the biblical narrative is that ultimately, the truly happy life is unattainable for us living as we do in the world as it is and not yet as it will be. That is, the horizon of human history is the Second Coming of Christ. It is the day the prophets of old testified about:

Micah 4:1-4

1 In days to come
the mountain of the Lord’s temple
shall be established as the highest of the mountains
and shall be raised up above the hills.
Peoples shall stream to it,
2 and many nations shall come and say:
“Come, let us go up to the mountain of the Lord,
to the house of the God of Jacob,
that he may teach us his ways
and that we may walk in his paths.”
For out of Zion shall go forth instruction,
and the word of the Lord from Jerusalem.
3 He shall judge between many peoples
and shall arbitrate between strong nations far away;
they shall beat their swords into plowshares
and their spears into pruning hooks;
nation shall not lift up sword against nation;
neither shall they learn war any more;
4 but they shall all sit under their own vines and under their own fig trees,
and no one shall make them afraid,
for the mouth of the Lord of hosts has spoken.

The prophetic vision of happiness captured in the poignant image of all sitting under their own vine and fig trees is set against the stilling of warring nations. It is difficult to say whether swords are beaten into plowshares because provision has been made such that all can enjoy happiness under their own vine and fig tress, or that all can enjoy happiness because weapons of mass destruction have been turned into tools for fishing. What we can say is that this day that is yet to come is a day made possible through the gracious hand of God. We do not bring this day about by our own ingenuity and achievement. It only comes about through the good and faithful judgment of God.

And until this day comes to pass, the council of Scripture advises us to expect, and in some ways welcome, suffering.

As St. Paul tells us in his letter to the Philippians:

Philippians 1:29

29 For he has graciously granted you the privilege not only of believing in Christ but of suffering for him as well,

To be clear, suffering for Christ is not about the kind of suffering inflicted on us through circumstance and sheer dumb luck. As if we are to consider it a privilege to have to suffer through cancer or to suffer the loss of a loved one or to have to suffer the calamitous fallout of a natural disaster. The suffering Paul has in mind is a kind of suffering that comes to us because we have chosen to give up our “right” to doggedly maximize our happiness quotient in this life.

This is not to say that happiness does not matter. The Christian ethic does not follow a kind of stoic denial of pleasures. It is not about detaching ourselves from what makes us happy. What the story of Christ reveals to us is that God desires our happiness and yet we must wait — wait for that day in which all of God’s promises foretold in Scripture will absolutely and fully come to pass. Our lives are lived in anticipation now of God being faithful to that promise then.

In the meantime we are given something of a foretaste. The death and resurrection of our Lord is, as the Apostle Paul puts it, the firstfruits pointing to that long awaited harvest (1 Cor. 15) — that what God did for Jesus in raising him up out of the grave is a kind of down payment assuring us that God will one day make good on his word and do the same for us.

So the suffering we are to expect and, as Paul seems to intimate, welcome, is the suffering that comes to us because we live in eager anticipation of a day that the world is yet unable to see. If we see happiness as something that ultimately will be realized fully in the future, we are less anxious about maximizing our own happiness in the present. But in doing so we may often find ourselves on the other side of the happiness equation. As others pursue happiness, we may feel like we are losing out and, in some cases, may suffer precisely because we have been given the short end of the stick due to the determination of others in securing their own happiness.

This suffering is tied to that sinking feeling we are not getting all that we assume we have a right to. That we are being looked over. That our labor and care in keeping with what we believe is good and right is not being recognized. In Paul’s day, this suffering is synonymous with persecution. In its most extreme form this is the suffering of the martyrs, who gave their lives in service to the promise that what was taken from them will one day be restored; thus, enabling them to risk love of enemy even when such love required them to suffer to the point of death. This is the most extreme response of a world unable to envision the good news at the heart of the Christian revelation about Jesus, the world, and the happy end God intends for us all.

Of course, none of this is easy. We may feel we are nowhere near the example given to us by the martyrs. We may not even think that that ought to be our aim. Whatever the case, wherever we find ourselves, we must have the sober outlook that the good life Christ calls us into will not be devoid of some kind of suffering. “In this world,” Jesus reminds us, “you will have trouble.” But we take heart because we know that Jesus has overcome the world (John 16:33). This means that though the good life is not one without its share of suffering, we are, nevertheless, carried along by the hope that in the end our happiness will be made complete when we, along with all creation, “will be set free from [our] enslavement to decay and will obtain the freedom of the glory of the children of God,” (Rom 8:21).

Amen.